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How to spot & handle a frenemy
Friends, Family, Mean GirlsChristina FerrariSeptember 25, 2025toxic friend, mean girl, mean girls, frenemy, frenemies, bad friends, unsupportive, unsupportive friend, friend help, friend advice, backhandedComment
Why making friends as an adult feels so hard (and what to do about it)
FriendsChristina FerrariSeptember 19, 2025making friends, new friends, toxic friends, how to make friends, mean girls, friendships, adult friendships, making friends is hardComment
When Mean Girl Moms Play Games With Birthday Invites: What To Do So Your Child Doesn’t Pay the Price
Kids, Mean Girls, Rude People, School dynamics, Social eventsChristina FerrariSeptember 16, 2025mean girl, mean girls, mean girl moms, birthday party, friend drama, school drama, ghost, cancel last minute, group chat, class group chat, class chat, parent drama, immature, immaturityComment
What to do when Mean Girls play the Breadcrumbs Game
Mean GirlsChristina FerrariSeptember 15, 2025breadcrumb, exclude, forget to invite, exclude you, selective forgetting, leave you out, left you out, didn't invite you, withholding, hot and cold, manipulationComment
3 Reasons Why Adult Friendships Can Feel Transactional
Christina FerrariSeptember 12, 2025transactional, using you, using me?, user, one sided friendship, toxic friend, friend audit, friendship auditComment
What to do when someone doesn't like you & you still have to see them often
Christina FerrariSeptember 9, 2025don't like you, mean girl, toxic coworker, toxic mom, mean mom, mean girl mom, relational aggression, jealous, envy, spiral, spiralingComment
3 reasons why you trigger people & how to not take it personally
Boundaries, Family, Friends, Gaslighting, Mean Girls, Mother in law, Rude People, School dynamics, Social events, Work SituationsChristina FerrariSeptember 9, 2025spiral, spiraling, trigger, triggering, doesn't like you, personal, how to not take it personal, overthink, mean girls, relational aggression, school, kids, coworkers, toxic, family dramaComment
4 Ways Mean Girls Gaslight You Into Thinking You’re the Problem (and How to Handle It)
Mean Girls, Mother in law, Rude People, Friends, Family, GaslightingChristina FerrariSeptember 6, 2025mean girls, mean girl energy, drama, gaslight, gaslighting, paranoid, sensitive, dramatic, overthinking, overreading, excuses, deflectComment
5 Signs She Is Secretly Competing With You (and How to Handle It)
Christina FerrariSeptember 3, 2025frenemy, competitive, competition, one up, one upping, comparison, downplay, outdo you, not happy for you, supportive, unsupportive, friend, friendship, sister in law, family drama, mean girl energyComment
Phrases & Tips to help you handle a DIFFICULT Sister in Law
Christina FerrariSeptember 3, 2025mean girl, sister in law, family drama, sister drama, competition, competitive, subtle digs, puts you down, meanComment
Why Can’t They Just Ask About Me? How to Start Building Reciprocal Friendships. 
Family, FriendsChristina FerrariAugust 28, 2025one sided friend, friendships, friend, mutual friendship, reciprocal, mutual, ask about me, why don't they ask about me, invisibleComment
How to Tolerate Discomfort and Awkwardness in Friendships
Friends, FamilyChristina FerrariAugust 26, 2025awkward, discomfort, uncomfortable, friendship, friend, fringe, bonus friend, how to show up differently, speak up, speaking up, tell a friend, change, avoid, avoidanceComment
How to Shift from Supporter to Participant (without stealing the spotlight) in your Friendships
Family, Friends, Social eventsChristina FerrariAugust 25, 2025one upper, brag, bragging, bragger, spotlight, friend help, fringe friend, supporter, support, participant, equal friend, connect, real friend, authentic friendshipComment
Why Empaths Become the Fringe Friend
Family, FriendsChristina FerrariAugust 25, 2025empath, emotionally unavailable, fringe friend, friendship, friend, tolerate discomfort, sensitive, empathy, agreeable, small, cheerleader, one upping, spotlightComment
4 Things You’re Doing That Are Making You Less Likable (and How to Fix Them)
Dating, Family, Friends, Social eventsChristina FerrariAugust 21, 2025likeable, new friends, making friends, lonely, how to make friends, complimentsComment
How Do You Know if Your Friend is Too Busy, Social Climbing, or Using You?
Friends, Family, DatingChristina FerrariAugust 21, 2025social climber, social climbing, user, busy, too busy, not into me, mutual friendshipComment
5 Ways To Stop Feeling Like the Black Sheep Parent at School
Kids, School dynamics, Mean GirlsChristina FerrariAugust 18, 2025mean girl moms, mean girls, bullying, left out, excluded, new parent, new kid, school drama, parents ignore you, parents, parenting adviceComment
3 Things to Do If You’re Tired of Being the Backup Fringe Friend
Friends, Social events, DatingChristina FerrariAugust 15, 2025making friends, friend, friends, new friends, friend help, conversation, social skills, how to connect, real friendships, authentic, fringe, fringe friend, back up friend, not the favorite, popularComment
3 must have comebacks to use with mean girls or bullies
Friends, Kids, Mean Girls, School dynamicsChristina FerrariAugust 13, 2025mean boys, mean moms, mean girl moms, bullies, relational aggression, school drama, friend drama Comment
How to Handle a Contrarian Friend Without Creating Drama
Boundaries, Friends, Family, Mother in law, Social events, Work SituationsChristina FerrariAugust 12, 2025contrarian, drama, disagree, disagreement, argument, argue, always arguing, always negative, always reaching outComment
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