Assertive YOU:

For when you don’t know what to say, what to do, or just want to talk it through. Assertive YOU gives you the words, step-by-step guides, and a private support community, created by Johns-Hopkins trained Clinical Psychologist, Christie Ferrari, Dr. C, as seen on TODAY, Newsweek, SELF, Parade, and WWD. 

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ASSERTIVE YOU
$9.99
Every month

For less than two coffees, you’ll have a psychologist in your back pocket for when you need it, plus the tools, scripts, and support to strengthen your relationships and take back your power. Invest in yourself. Cancel any time.


✓ Access to 500+ Assertive Scripts
✓ New weekly scripts for friends, family, parenting, & work
✓ Ask for support anonymously in the community forum
✓ Access to Guides on Mean Girls, Friendships, & Parenting
✓ Easy access to all previous content, fully organized

If you’ve ever…

  • Avoided a tough conversation because you didn’t know what to say 

  • Found yourself people-pleasing to keep the peace 

  • Dealt with mean girls, mean girl moms, or had to help your child handle them 

  • Been the fringe friend, always included last or left out entirely

  • Felt overlooked at work or stuck in office politics 

  • Needed to set boundaries with friends, family, or colleagues without starting drama 

  • Wanted to parent with confidence, even in the messy moments from potty training to school struggles

  • Wanted to make new friends but didn’t know how 

Assertive YOU gives you the exact words and in-depth, self-paced step-by-step guides in a mobile friendly format, plus a private community where you can connect with others, share experiences, and get encouragement. I personally reply to every post with tailored support, so you can stop overthinking and never feel alone in it. 

You’ll learn how to

  • Spot and shut down mean girl behavior with confidence, so you keep your power and protect your peace 

  • Walk away from exclusion or backhanded comments feeling in control, not rattled or second guessing yourself 

  • Speak up calmly and confidently, even with people who push back, using phrases that work in real life 

  • Navigate tricky family dynamics from mother-in-laws to siblings, without letting guilt, tension, or old patterns take over

  • Handle draining relationships without getting pulled int drama (and without feeling guilty)

  • Navigate family, work, and parenting challenges without freezing up or overthinking

  • Make new friends and strengthen the ones worth keeping, with steps you can actually follow 

Imagine walking away from any conversation feeling calm, confident, seen, and heard without second-guessing yourself.